7 Reasons Every Couple Needs an Engagement Photo Session

Planning your wedding is such an exciting time. After all, there's so much joy, anticipation, and yes, a whole lot of decisions to make. But in my humble opinion as a NJ wedding photographer? One of the best decisions you CAN make is to schedule an engagement photo session! Not only is it a wonderful way to celebrate your love story (and this fleeting chapter of your life!), but it’s also a great way to get comfortable in front of the camera. Today on the blog, I’m going to go even deeper with you and share 7 reasons every couple should consider pre-wedding photography and some tips to help you feel more relaxed behind the camera!

Before we get started, if you’re searching for a New Jersey wedding photographer, I’d love to be considered! I specialize in intimate weddings like elopements and micro weddings. Learn more about me here or if you already like what you see, contact me here. I would love to help make your engagement photo session truly unforgettable!

Okay, now let's dive into why every couple should book one!

1. Establish a Connection with Your Photographer

First, an engagement photo session is the perfect way to get to know your photographer. I know I’m on the other side here, but building a connection with your photographer is super important because it helps create trust for your wedding day (which will in turn, help you stay present!). During the session, you’ll get a feel for their style and approach, and this familiarity also lets your photographer capture your true personalities and the unique chemistry you share.

Plus, this connection means better communication. You can chat about your preferences, ask questions, and get some awesome advice. Being on the same page with your photographer ensures everything goes smoothly on your wedding day.

2. Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera

Let’s be real—being photographed can be a little nerve-wracking for some of us. I also know (after ten years behind the camera) that that might be one of the reasons why you’re hesitant to book an engagement photo session. But the truth is, taking your engagement photos will be a relaxed setting designed to help you shake off any camera shyness. You’ll get to practice posing, try out different angles, and see what feels natural for you.

This experience will make you and your partner pros by the time your wedding day rolls around. You’ll feel more comfortable and your photos will show off your genuine happiness and ease. It’s like a practice run that guarantees beautiful wedding photos!

3. Use Engagement Session Photos for Save-the-Dates, Table Numbers, or a Wedding Day Sign-In Book

One of the best perks of an engagement photo session is that you have a chance to actually USE your photos for your wedding details. One of my favorite things to see is couples sending out save-the-date cards with their gorgeous engagement photos on them—so personal and memorable!

You can also use your engagement photos for table numbers or you can get creative and design a wedding day sign-in book filled with them. The latter makes for a beautiful keepsake and a fun way for guests to leave heartfelt messages.

4. Gives You More Time to Concentrate on Getting Creative

This kind of comes back to my point on not having your wedding day be your practice run, but let me explain what I mean. Without the rush of your wedding day, an engagement photo session gives you the freedom to get creative and have a blast. It’s your chance to think outside the box and incorporate fun elements that reflect your personalities.

Whether it’s a themed shoot, incorporating your hobbies, or even involving your pets, the sky's the limit. These sessions often result in some of the most cherished images, because I’m able to capture the essence of your connection in a relaxed, playful setting.

5. Give Yourself Permission to Celebrate Your Engagement!

Your engagement is a big deal and it deserves to be celebrated! An engagement photo session is a fantastic way to honor this special time in your lives. While it might seem like you are so excited to be married now (and I don’t blame you!), this time really is so fleeting. It’s nice to take a moment to reflect on your journey together and look forward to the amazing future ahead.

6. Gives You and Your Partner Photos in Nice Outfits, Not Just in Wedding Attire

While your wedding photos will be stunning (and I have no doubt you’ll want to show them off!), they shouldn’t be the only photos you have of yourself. An engagement photo session lets you show off a different side of your relationship. You can pick fun, casual outfits that reflect your everyday style and personality, or you can use it as an excuse to dress up. I’ve also had couples opt to do an outfit change so they get a bit of both!

This variety in photos is awesome because it gives a fuller picture of your relationship. You can try out different themes, colors, and settings that might not be possible on your wedding day. These images will complement your wedding photos beautifully, adding depth and diversity to your photo collection.

7. Allows You to Go to a Completely Different Setting Than Your Wedding

One of the best things about an engagement photo session is the chance to explore new and exciting locations. Unlike your wedding day, where you might be tied to a specific venue, engagement sessions let you venture to scenic spots that are special to you or just plain gorgeous.

This change in setting gives a striking contrast to your wedding photos, making your overall collection richer and more interesting. Whether it’s a beach, a forest, a bustling city, or a cozy hometown spot, the different environments add a unique charm to your photos, making your pre-wedding photography truly special.

Tips for Feeling More Relaxed During Your Engagement Photos

I hope I’ve convinces you that engagement photos are so worth taking! Here are a few extra tips as you start the planning phase!

• Combine with Activities: Incorporate favorite activities to ease tension, such as hiking, cooking together, or visiting a favorite café.

• Choose Comfortable Settings: Opt for familiar or meaningful locations that hold sentimental value, bringing out authentic emotions and relaxed expressions.

• Practice Mindfulness Techniques: Simple exercises like deep breathing or focusing on each other can help you stay grounded and present during the shoot. If we work together, I will guide you too!

Every Couple Deserves Pre-Wedding Photography

As you can tell, I believe that an engagement photo session is a must-have for every couple. By investing in an engagement photo session, you’re not just prepping for your wedding day; you’re capturing the magic of your journey together.

Ready to book your engagement photo session and celebrate your love story? Contact me today to schedule your pre-wedding photography now.